縮小兩者落差的方法，就是讓孩子安心。沒有安全感的孩子情緒低落時，就像掉入懸崖般不能自拔。讓孩子安心的方法是多擁抱他們。孩子透過擁抱所獲得的安全感，可以大到超乎媽媽的想像。長大後情緒起伏激烈的人，通常是因為小時候很少被父母擁抱的關係。相反的，在孩提時期時常被擁抱，情緒的起伏就會比較平穩。
Both methods reduce the gap , Is to make children feel at ease . There is no sense of security when the child depression , like unable to extricate themselves fall into the cliff-like . Let the children feel at ease method is more than embrace them . The children through the embrace obtained , Mon can be as large beyond imagination . Growing up intense emotional ups and downs of people , Usually because the relation ship between a child's parents are rarely hug . The opposite of , Are often embraced in children , Emotional ups and downs will be relatively stable .
